The E-catechism: August 1998


 

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MARY

 

Does Mary, a Jewish woman, the mother of Jesus, find room in our faith ? In our imagination ? Is she a queen of whom one expects favours ? A maternal refuge from the harshness of life ? The feminine presence in a masculine institution ? A light in our path ?
What if we overlooked for a while what twenty centuries of Christianity did for Mary and simply looked at the Gospels ?
Under the sobriety of the gospel language is hidden a great density of life. In the first chapters of Luke, which contain meaning which goes far beyond the mere words, Mary is not overcome by the extraordinary promise of the Angel Gabriel.
She is not a credulous woman, she demands an explanation: "How will this come about?" Then she leaves to go and meet her cousin Elizabeth. When one carries a too large and too heavy secret, one has need to trust a friendly ear, an ear which one is sure will understand one; that is why Mary undertook the long road from Nazareth to ElnKarem. The meeting between the two women is full of interior meaning. Under the inspiration of the Spirit, they are transparent to each other. And Mary, the silent one, intones the Magnificat that announces that God overthrows the powerful from their throne and sends away the rich with empty hands.

Much later on, she shows her preoccupation. The word is going round that Jesus is behaving in a strange manner. He is teaching and they come to tell him: "Your mother and brothers are asking for you." Mary could feel that the opposition to Jesus was growing. She knew what was the fate of prophets. She feared for the life of her son. Perhaps she was also a little troubled that his teaching did not always fit in with that of the High Priests. To oppose those who are supposed to be the holders of the truth demands a lot of insight and of courage.

In John's Gospel we meet her at Cana."They have run out of wine," she tells her son, who answers her: "My hour has not yet come." It is rather as if Mary were giving birth to Jesus's ministry. So she simply tells the servers: "Do what he asks you to do."
By the cross, she is standing. She will remain staunch to the end. For the last time, Jesus addresses his mother. Solemnly, he calls her "woman" and adds "here is your son", pointing to John who is standing next to her. To the apostle he declares "here is your mother !" Tender and cruel word: her child, the one she brought into the world, whom she brought up, whom she cared for, is dying in the midst of horror. And he entrusts her with another child, to whom, at the same time, he offers her. As if a child can replace another child ! Maternity cannot turn in on itself, it must still and always give life.
Nothing is told us about Mary and the Resurrection. This passed in the secret of her heart. We find her in the cenacle, the high chamber in which, after the departure of Jesus, the disciples met in &laqno;unanimity» according to the Acts of the Apostles, "assiduous in prayer, together with some women, among whom was Mary, the mother of Jesus, and his brothers."
This is the first image, simple and beautiful, of a Church being born: the friends of Jesus, men and women, his brothers, his mother, all together awaiting the Spirit.

 

 


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WOMEN AND THE CHURCH

 

There is, if not a dispute, at least an ambivalence in the relationship between women and the Church. On the one hand, the Church supports women and on the other, it blocks them. The Church is a support for the human dignity of women. "The feminine humanity", according to a lovely expression of John Paul II, is considered as having to stand at a level of essential parity with the masculine humanity. Whenever the rights of women are affected, as is now the case in Afghanistan, the Church protests. The Church opposes all forms of discrimination based on sex (and also on race, on the colour of your skin), as being against the will of God. History tells us that it was the Church that demanded the consent of the spouses, therefore of the woman, before validating a marriage, thus defending the will of the woman when in opposition to the will of the father. On the occasion of the Beijing Conference, the Church went even further and expressed regret for the responsibility she bears in the diminution and reduction to the status of slavery of women and by recognising the violence that is exercised against them. The Church proclaimed the equal responsibility of men and of women in the construction of History (letter of John Paul II to Women, June 1995).

At the same time, the Church blocks women into an image and into a certain status. The image of women that is promoted or even sacralized by the Church is essentially that of the mother, who knows so well how to devote herself and how to sacrifice herself. It is as a mother that she reaches feminine perfection. The figure of the virgin does not escape from spiritual maternity. Women are identified by their sexuality. Was it not said when referring to them: "the people of sex ?" Only maternity can manage to sublimate that disquieting sexuality. However, nowadays even more than yesterday, women are not entirely determined by their maternity. Many other sectors of activity are open to them, namely in professional work. The control over reproduction and the increase of life expectancy has allowed women to embrace all sorts of activities which also contribute to fulfil them. In its internal organisation, the Church does not concede the same possibilities to men and to women. By not being allowed to enter the priesthood, because of the singular vocation that the Church attributes to them, women are set aside from the decision making spheres, which are reserved to the ordained ministers.

Two consequences are forthcoming as a result of this situation. On the one hand, there is a disfunctioning effect, due to the fact that it is women who are the majority of those at the service of the Church while remaining enclosed in underling roles, in spite of the concrete responsibilities which they in practice have to carry. On the other hand, the representations of the feminine image that the Church communicates to society owing to these discriminatory practices, invalidates the beautiful principles that She preaches. For how long more can the Church remain in this false situation with regard women ?


 

 


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